Christmas time, or present time?

I have seen SO many posts by friends recently that are all struggling to afford Christmas for kids. I wanted to write this just for you. I want you to know, I have been there. I have sat in my room and cried because I knew Santa just could not come that year. I cried because every Christmas I had as a child was full of presents and fun and huge meals and lots of family. Then all of a sudden, the little creatures I loved more than my own life couldn't have that wonderful moment I had.

But why? WHY were those Christmas' so special? Was it because of the presents I received? I can tell you, in all your pain and worry and stress, remember this. It was Never the presents, but the family. Here I am, 10 years without any relationships with my 3 brothers, and I would have traded every toy as a child to have those relationships now.

Your child may want toys, but all they need is your love. All they need is to know they have YOU! Family is supposed to love, and love unconditionally. So this Christmas, when you don't have a gift to give, make a coupon for them to trade in for a special afternoon you. Wrap up a game you made, a hand drawn puzzle you created. Take a day and go to the Warming Center and volunteer. Teach your children and yourself, that the TRUE meaning of Christmas is the gift Jesus gave us, unconditional love! If your kids are too young for that, then they are too young to have any clue that they should have gotten presents to begin with.

If you are alone on Christmas, I don't believe for a heartbeat no one would have you over. Swallow your fear and ask a friend if you can come over. I would never hesitate to allow a friend to come to my house who needed a home for Christmas! This year, let yourself find the true meaning again!