Who's the leader in your family?

I have been watching my two daughters play all afternoon and it is a riot!! Emma comes up with the ideas, but then it is funny to watch Grace take over and lead the playing! Emma does a great job being patient with Grace and helps remind her to use her words. How do the siblings in your families get a long? How do you resolve struggles between siblings? We often work on turn taking to try to solve problems. We are lucky that both girls are honest about fights so its pretty easy to solve disputes! We use a turn taking card when they fight over the same toy. Whoever has the card gets the toy, and then after 5 minutes or so we swtich. They girls like the card and have fun giving it to the other sibling! What do you do?